Of What Value Is Sentiment?

via flickr - Jeff Belmonte
I wonder sometimes if we humans attach too much value to objects.
From a recent news story:
A New Zealand man who promised his wife he would find his wedding ring after it fell into the capital’s murky harbor has succeeded — 16 months later.
To him, I’m sure, that little golden circle held a lot of value. To anyone else, it’s just a piece of jewelry. The value is all sentimental – created by emotions and memory.
But aren’t the feelings and the memories the real things of value? With or without the ring, he would still have those, wouldn’t he?
I can almost defend him for going after the ring, but what I cannot defend is those who hoard to themselves mountains of things that are of no real use to them, simply because of sentiment. Houses, garages, sheds and storage units overflow with stuff, because people are too emotionally attached to inanmate objects to bear to get rid of them.
Some of it may be garbage, for sure, but many of those things could go to someone in need, donated to a charitable organization, or sold for cash to give away. But most would rather hang on to the memories and watch the things that they love fade into disrepair and turn into garbage.
What they don’t realize, is that by using what they have to help someone else, they can increase the good memories and positive feelings, by knowing the blessing of giving. And instead of a life cluttered with stuff, they could have a full heart.




